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Discover the best toddler boy gifts for ages 2–4, featuring top-rated construction toys, outdoor fun, and engaging pretend play favorites. Find the perfect present to spark imagination, build skills, and keep your toddler active and happy!
Find our favorites by age and why we love them.
Top Gifts for 2 Year Old Boys
Road Rug: This machine washable play rug is great for 2 year olds and older who love toy vehicles. Roll cars on the road and have them go to the farm, hospital, and park. Add other toys on top to make a play scene. Roll it up when you’re done or leave it out!
Toddler Trike with Push Handle: A great tricycle for 2 year olds, this is a 5-in-1 toy! The parent handlebar adjusts and turns so you can steer. Additionally, the pedals, handlebar, seat, and wheels are all adjustable. This outdoor toy can grow with your child as they work towards independence in riding a bike!
Learning Resources Farmers Market: This is a great learning toy for 2 year olds as you label the names of the produce and play together. Sort these by color, or use it as play food in the pretend kitchen. We use this toy all the time!
Sit & Spin: I love this classic toy for 2 year olds. You can start using it around 18 months of age. Your child can decide how fast they want to spin, and spin all that energy out! It’s perfect for indoor play and works on balance and coordination.
Little Tikes Trampoline: One of the best toys for gross motor development! It’s great for learning to jump and deep pressure input. I love the bar for littles to keep their balance. The packaging says 3 years and older, but younger toddlers can get great use out of this with supervision.
Bubble Machine: We love this toy for outdoor play. There’s something about bubbles that’s magical and brings joy. Count the bubbles, run after them, or work on poking and popping them!
Little Tikes Gas & Go Mower: I love this push mower for kids because it’s more sturdy than most. Your child can pull the rip-cord to “start” the mower and fill it with gas, too. It’s a great outdoor toy for toddlers!
Green Toys Dump Truck: The perfect sized dump truck for 2 year olds. It can be used inside or outside. Target functional language by loading things in, and dumping them out!
Melissa & Doug Farm Train: We love this toy train for 2 year olds! Use it for pretend play, learning colors, counting and more.
Melissa & Doug Blockables: These blocks are great toys for 2 year olds as they work on fine motor skills and problem-solving. They’re made of wood and snap together for building fun. I love that you can set a play scene with the set!
Top Gifts for 3 Year Old Boys
DUPLO Animal Farm: We love these building toys for 3 year olds. DUPLOs are great for working on fine motor skills and following directions! You can talk about and re-enact what farmers do on the farm.
Wooden Fire House: This is such a fun toy for 3 year olds that encourages hours of pretend play! It comes with bendable firemen, furniture, a fire truck, and an emergency helicopter.
Truck Builder Kit: This toy is so much fun for 3 year olds! You can take the parts off and put them back on. It has lights and real engine sounds! You can pretend to check the oil, beep the horn, shift gears, etc.
Ride-On Car: We got this ride-on car for Paul and have been using it for years. It’s a great option for toddlers! They can learn to drive and steer, but there’s also a remote for parents to control, too.
Melissa & Doug Sandwich Station: This sandwich making counter is perfect for following directions, asking questions, and practicing ordering! It’s a great addition to the play kitchen if your toddler enjoys playing chef.
Plasma Car: This car moves by turning the steering wheel and helps to develop your child’s coordination, balance, and gross motor skills!
Toniebox: The perfect screen-free toy for toddlers. Tonieboxes play your child’s favorite stories in an easy-to-operate audio player. Listening to stories read aloud strengthens your child’s attention, listening and comprehension skills! We love ours.
LCD Doodle Board: Doodle boards are portable and mess-free, which makes them perfect for traveling and on-the-go. Children can draw pictures or practice printing and then erase with the press of a button. These also work on fine motor skills!
BRIO Train Station: While this train set is an investment, it’s a toy train set your child will play with for years. This set comes with all your need to build your own railway and accessories, too.
MAGNA-TILES: Another great building toy for 3 year olds and older! Magnetic tiles inspire hours of creative building fun. Dream up anything you want to build and make it happen. This toy will grow with your child for years!
Top Gifts for 4 Year Old Boys
PicassoTiles Race Track: Build a race track however you’d like and see how fast the cars can go! This is a fun building toy for 4 year olds that they will enjoy for years.
Lil’ Kick Scooter: A fun ride to take a spin around the block or on a walk. Works on lower body strength & coordination, too! Another great toy for outdoor play.
Melissa & Doug Grill & Serve Barbeque Set: Take turns taking each other’s order with this fun grill set. Work on fine motor skills as you use the play knife, spatula, and tongs to flip, cook, cut & serve items.
Lincoln Logs: This is a tried and true building toy for 4 year olds that works on fine motor coordination, creativity, and concentration!
Superhero Dress Up Set: Set up an obstacle course with couch cushions and kitchen chairs for your little superhero to ‘fly’ through! Practice some dressing skills by fastening and unfastening capes, and putting the mask on and off the head.
Play-Doh Barber Shop Set: Play-Doh sets are a fun activity for 4 year olds and provide lots of sensory exploration. Your child will have lots of fun “growing” the hair and styling it – or buzz it off!
Wooden Tool Kit: This is a great set for 4 year olds who love to build. These sturdy wooden tools are great for pretend play. It comes with instructions and pieces to build your own car, too!
Stomp Rocket: Practice jumping and stomping as you and your child see how high you can make the rocket fly. Race to find where the rockets fell, and do it all over again!
Melissa & Doug Large Barn Puzzle: Puzzles are great for working fine motor skills and using problem-solving skills. Put this large 32-piece puzzle together. If your child is stuck, talk through what’s on the different pieces and how they might fit together.
Popstick Puppets: A fun and simple craft for 4 year olds that you can use for pretend play after you finish!
Best Construction Toys for Toddlers
CAT Super-Sized Excavator: Get outside with this outdoor toy! Great for the sand or dirt, your little one will love using the digger to scoop and move materials as they pretend they are on their own construction site!
Friction-Powered Construction Toys: Make a taste-safe sensory bin with crushed graham crackers and add these construction toys in! Your child will love moving the trucks around in the ‘dirt.’ Use the trucks to scoop and pour dirt. These construction toys are powered by friction. Pull them back and watch them move!
Melissa & Doug Construction Vehicles: This is a great construction toy for toddlers! This wooden set includes a steam roller, cement mixer, forklift, dump truck, front loader, crane, and backhoe. Use blocks to create a construction scene, then engage in open-ended play with these construction vehicles.
Construction Worker Outfit: Everything your child needs to do their own roadwork or construction! Talk about what tools a construction worker uses and how they work. Extend this activity further by “building” something out of cardboard boxes, blocks, or even real wood.
MAGNA-TILES Construction Set: This is both a construction toy and a building toy for toddlers. Add this set to your MAGNA-TILES and build your own construction scene together.
DUPLO Construction Set: This is a great construction toy for 2 and 3 year olds. Practice following directions and increasing visual motor skills as you build the construction vehicles. Then add these construction pieces to your DUPLO collection and play!
Construction Play Mat: An affordable construction toy for 3 year olds they will come back to again and again! Bring all your construction vehicles and set the play scene on this mat. There’s so much creativity and open-ended play for the construction lover.
Construction-Themed Sensory Bin: I love sensory bins for 3 year olds and older! This brand makes bins with different themes and they’re so affordable. A great option for sensory exposure during pretend play!
Tonka Dump Truck: A construction toy built to last! This large Tonka dump truck is a great outdoor toy for toddlers. Dig and build in the dirt. Search for rocks and fill the truck bed. This is a classic toy your child will use for years.
Green Toys Construction Vehicle Set: We love Green Toys and everything they make. This is a great set of construction vehicles for inside or outside. Bonus: they’re easy to clean!
Best Dinosaur Toys for Toddlers
Dinosaur Matching Eggs: These eggs are a great toy for 18 month olds. You can work on imitation skills like “cracking” the egg. Additionally, work on motor coordination to pull the egg halves apart. Then, transition to matching, putting together, and color sorting as your little one gets older. There are so many ways to play with these eggs!
Little Tikes Dinosaur Coupe: Pretend you are going to search for dinosaurs as your little one steers and navigates around your driveway with their feet. Great for increasing full body strength and coordination. Perfect for 2 year olds!
Dinosaur Car Carrier: Take turns passing the truck back and forth and unloading the dinosaur vehicles! All the vehicles in this set have pull-back features. This is a great toy for all dinosaur lovers!
Dinosaur Play Rug: Set the scene with this engaging rug. Practice imitation skillsas you walk the dinosaurs along the pathways, swim in the water, and fly over the volcano.
SmartMax Dinosaur STEM Magnetic Set: Okay, these are neat. A STEM-based dinosaur toy for toddlers. They have strong magnets at the center, and you match the head and rest of the body to build the dinosaurs. Or, you can mix and match – the pieces are interchangeable!
Dinosaur Hopper Toy: This is such a fun toy for 18 month olds and older. Hop on the dinosaur and work on gross motor skills like jumping and balance. Your child will love to play pretend with this as they ride around on the dinosaur!
Dinosaur Play Figures: This dinosaur toy combines 12 realistic dinosaurs for any type of play! Grab a play mat, take them outside, or pretend to play with them wherever you go. The set comes with a metal box for easy storage.
Dinosaur Egg Puzzle: Hide and discover baby dinosaurs by putting the puzzle together and back apart again. The dinosaurs inside the puzzle can be used for pretend play. This is a great dinosaur toy because it works on fine motor skills during play! I recommend for 18 month olds and older.
Dinosaur Sensory Bin: We love these sensory bins for creativity and sensory exploration! Because of some smaller pieces, I recommend for 3 year olds and older. Your toddler can dig, scoop, search, find, and play pretend. When finished, just put the lid on and store it away.
MAGNA-TILES Dino World Set: Large magnetic pieces are perfect for increasing fine motor skills and bilateral coordination. Use the box as a model or let your little one create their own scene with the tiles.
Best Sports Toys for Toddlers
First Soccer Set: Get your toddler outside kicking the soccer ball with this kid-sized ball and goal. Perfect for running around, working on kicking, and getting some energy out.
Inflatable Football Target: Gift this to any toddler boy who loves throwing balls or playing football. This inflatable target stands just over 5 feet tall and keeps kids so entertained! A perfect toy for gross motor movement like throwing!
Sports Balls: This is the perfect size sports ball set for toddlers. Help foster gross motor development within your child! This gift inspires movement. Roll the balls back and forth, play catch, work on throwing and kicking.
Cones, Beanbag & Ring Toss: I love this set because it’s open-ended. Set out the cones to make a running obstacle course, work on throwing the bean bags, or do a ring toss. Let your toddler be creative and set up their own activity.
Little Tikes Basketball Set: This is a classic toy! Adjustable height and a wide rim, this is great for practicing hand-eye coordination and playing independently or with peers.
Easy Catch Glove & Ball: Learning how to catch a baseball can be tricky. But this toddler baseball glove can help! It has Velcro on the ball to help with the ease of catching. It helps 3-5 year olds build confidence in their baseball skills as they practice and learn.
Toddler Golf Set: If you have a toddler who loves golf, this is the gift to get! This set comes with 3 plastic clubs, 3 balls, practice holes and tees, and a golf bag to keep everything together. It’s a great set to work on hand-eye coordination and control.
Folding Hockey Goals Set: This set has everything you need to introduce your toddler to hockey. It comes with two folding goals, adjustable kid-sized hockey sticks, and balls. Take this set outside or bring it inside if you have some open space to play! It’s great for kids 5 and under.
Over-The-Door Basketball Hoop: Bring the fun inside with this basketball hoop you can hang over any door. Your toddler will love shooting around and working on throwing the balls in the hoop!
Little Tikes T-Ball Set: This is perfect for your toddler to work on sequencing steps. Get the ball, put the ball on the tee, then hit the ball. It’s an age-appropriate introduction to baseball and works on hand-eye strength and coordination during play.
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MS, SLP
Founder of Eat Play Say, Speech-Language Pathologist, Feeding Specialist, Play Expert, Mom of 2
Jordyn Koveleski Gorman
SPECIALIZES IN: Infant and toddler speech-language, play, and feeding development, and curating a team that provides expert help that feels like a reassuring text from that one mom friend
EDUCATION: Jordyn received her BS in Speech-Language Pathology from Bloomsburg University and her MS in Speech-Language Pathology from Towson University
FAVE PARENTING FIRST: “The first true smile, it’s the sweetest!”
SPECIALIZES IN: Breast and bottle feeding, tongue ties, oral motor dysfunction, starting solids, infant and toddler speech, treating oral motor disorders
EDUCATION: Jessica received her BS in Communication Sciences and Disorders from Pennsylvania State University in 2015 and her MS in Speech-Language Pathology from Towson University in 2017
FAVE PARENTING FIRST: “Baby’s first wave! What a fun first communication gesture!”
SPECIALIZES IN: Breast and bottle feeding, tongue ties, starting solids, infant and toddler speech development
EDUCATION: She received her BS in Speech-Language Pathology from Ball State in 2014 and a MA in Speech-Language Pathology from Ball State in 2016.
FAVE PARENTING FIRST: “My favorite baby’s first is their first true smile that just warms your soul knowing they are smiling at you. My other favorite is their first word. I love watching their language explode!”
MS, CCC-SLP
Bilingual Speech-Language Pathologist
Nicole La Petina Kelly
SPECIALIZES IN: Bilingual development (Spanish-English), supporting multilingual families, infant and toddler speech
EDUCATION: She received her BA in Communication Sciences and Disorders and in Spanish from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in 2014 and her MS in Speech-Language Pathology with an English-Spanish Specialization from Marquette University in 2016.
FAVE PARENTING FIRST: “It’s the first slobbery kisses for me!”
MS, OTR/L
Occupational Therapist
Olivia Rechel
SPECIALIZES IN: Fine & gross motor skills, sensory processing, self-care skills, autism spectrum support, sensory feeding difficulties, sensory processing disorder, social-emotional learning, and sensory related feeding difficulties
EDUCATION: She received her BS and MS in Occupational Therapy from Xavier University.
FAVE PARENTING FIRST: “The first time that little stinker focuses in on you. When you know they are matching that voice they’ve been hearing for 9 months to your face and your touch. When you see their brain piecing you all together. That is the best first for me.”
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Licensed Registered Dietitian
Kimberly Vede
SPECIALIZES IN: Infant and pediatric nutrition including breastfeeding, formula feeding, and starting solids. She also specializes in prenatal and postpartum nutrition.
EDUCATION: She received her BSc in Biology in 2014 from Life University, and her BSc in Dietetics from Life University in 2019.
FAVE PARENTING FIRST: ”The first time they say ‘mama!’”
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